Friday, July 29, 2022

41

I'm about to begin year 41 on planet earth in 36 hours. I'm feeling a little down, I just have a few quick things to say. 

1. The loneliest feeling is to be surrounded by lots of people and feel as if you don't matter. 

2. I feel powerless to keep this country from going to hell. I miss having talk leaders who cared about our people first. They may not have been the nicest people ever, but they got the fing job done. 

3. I dread losing my mother one day. No one else has known me as long or as well. I can talk to get about things I can't with anyone else. But I'm thankful for the 4 plus decades we have so far, even though we fight more than I wish. 

4. If it wasn't for sad songs, I don't know how I'd cope with my hurt. I don't know if I can change as a man anymore. My habits seem to be my habits, good or bad. So I guess I will take the bandage on my disease. Won't cure it but I'll at least take the temporary cover up. 

5. At work, only our campus president knew it was my birthday. No one else knew or said anything. It's not that birthdays are that important. It's just that it means someone actually gives a damn. 

Sorry for the sad theme, but that's all I have in me tonight. 

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Monday, July 11, 2022

Myrtle Beach Days, Part 2

On Sunday, which felt like a Saturday, I woke up and hit the gym to work my arms. It was good finally having access to 20 pound dumbbells for overhead tricep extensions, since my apartment complex still hasn't replaced the stolen 20s. Or the stolen 35s. Or the stolen 50s. Of course the air conditioning still wasn't working, so I was done after about 20 minutes. I then headed into the lobby for a breakfast of scrambled eggs, turkey sausage patties, and two mini waffles. And I made sure to bring the dark roast coffee up to mom while se was sleeping.

Our first destination was Mt. Atlanticus minotaur goff (not a typeo), one of the top rated courses on the Grand Strand. They have two 18 hole courses, we just had time for one and we went with the Minotaur course. The course really goes high, there are a lot of stairs to climb, but it has some nice waterfalls. It wasn't the hardest course, I was able to sink four holes-in one, it's more about the decorations than the actual golf itself.

After that, we went down south to Pawley's Island, where I first visited in 1997 with my high school to do mission work. Holy Cross Faith Memorial Episcopal church was building a larger church and we had to help clear the back baseball field. And we did that, though getting the batting cage out of the earth proved to be challenging. Also, there is a free medical clinic on site, and we assisted there too, we actually stayed on site for a full week.

And they have their new building now, well, it was new at the time, but I guess it has been up since 2000 so it's not exactly new now. But it was my first time attending service at Holy Cross inside their new building. 

Now I thought it was a biracial congregation, it was actually as white as South Dakota. The service was very liturgical, incredibly ritualistic. It wasn't quite experiencing Roman Catholicism again, but it felt like its first cousin with the Lord's prayer, kneeling, etc. The sermon was over in about 10-12 minutes; I would say 45 minutes of the service was hymns, prayers, and recitations of Scripture. I joined in everything except the prayers of the people, since I couldn't relate to the people in their congregation or the government officials of South Carolina. 

Then it was onto lunch at Local, a new restaurant located in the Hammock Island shops. It was kind of a gastropub, except they also serve brunch on the weekends. We started with their Sedona salad, with greens, chunky pico, grilled corn, avocado, carrot, black beans, shredded cheddar, fried tortilla strips, chipotle ranch, and we added pan-seared shrimp. The shrimp stole the show, nicely seasoned, and they tasted so fresh, that authentic Low country taste that you just can't find anywhere else. Great veggies too, I definitely salute the kitchen on this one.

Then we had their Sunday chicken, which was half a fried chicken. I asked for sides of their Peri Peri hot sauce and their ale honey mustard, and they delivered both in small metal ramekins. I could really taste the beer in the mustard. So from what I hear their batter for the chicken has pickle juice and beer in it. I can say this, the chicken was definitely juicy and that skin was quite crispy. If I had one criticism, I would I could have tasted more seasoning. When I eat bone in fried chicken, I want to taste some paprika, some cayenne, some garlic, not just the breading.

They did a great job on the sides. The Yukon gold mashed potatoes were creamy, simply seasoned, and very fluffy. The vinegar cole slaw was a great palate refresher, it was not mayo based, thankfully. I'm thinking there was a little cider vinegar in it.

We had a manager and a chef come out to ask how the food was, which we really did appreciate. It's a staff that cares how they are doing and that matters to me. Great experience.

While mom was shopping for clothes, I got her a bottle of Eureka lemon olive oil because I knew she would appreciate it. The hammock shops don't have a lot of stores that would appeal to me as a guy but I'll always take time to relax in a single cotton hand woven hammock.

Then we went back to the hotel and I got ready to visit the satellite location of the Pro Football Hall of Fame at Broadway At the Beach. I put on my Jets t-shirt and back Jets baseball cap. I'm a die hard Jets fan, but I've never been to Canton to visit the actual Hall. So after paying about 25 bucks, I was able to enter a scaled down version. 

They have a couple of interesting exhibits including pioneers of the game, history of race in professional football, sports science, and single season records. They had a few interactive exhibits such as an instant replay booth where I got to watch plays and determine if the call on the field was correct or if it should be overturned. There were also hand prints of quarterbacks on footballs, Warren Moon, Jim Kelly, and Troy Aikman, as well as leg outlines from Jerome Bettis and Gilbert Brown. Suffice to say, my thighs are not quite that large.

But the highlight for me was the Super Bowl theater with player jerseys arranged in a semi circle, and the Lombardi trophy right in the middle of the room. The room would go dark and a film of NFL highlights played. It was easy to get entranced by the experience. They featured Joe Namath's Super Bowl jersey, which has a couple of holes in it now.

I checked the small merch store and they have t-shirts featuring various NFL team legends. They had a Jets version, so I bought four Jets legends shirts, which are exclusive to the Hall of Fame, for my local club that we will give away in raffle prizes. And the manager even gave me ten percent off! 

From what I was told, the Hall will remain in its current location until next July and then a decision will be made if they stay or not, it just depends on business. Hopefully, they will stay around for a long time.

I arrived at 3 pm on a Saturday and the line to get in was immense. Thankfully, I was able to score a seat at the bar. I ordered the Who's To Blame margarita on the rocks and with salt. It had Margaritaville Gold Tequila, Margaritaville Triple Sec and the house margarita blend. Well balanced, very refreshing, not too strong.

I really like how they have uniquely shaped tables, for instance there is a giant boat in the middle of the restaurant and they have a 5-person table at the mast of the boat. Super creative. And right near the center of the restaurant, there is a giant margarita bottle that repels from the ceiling at certain times and fills up an oversized blender.

While sipping on my drink, I could see the dark gray storm clouds forming in the distance, so I knew I had to head back to the room. It was about a ten minute walk, but I made it back inside just as the sprinkling was starting. Within five minutes, the sky opened up and a monsoon was under way.

After cleaning up, Mom and I headed for dinner at Umberto's at Barefoot Landing on the north side of Myrtle Beach. We arrived at 5 pm, right when they opened, and at least 30 tables had already been sat. I guess we went to a popular place!

This is a classic old style Italian restaurant, in that they feed you actual food before they even take your order. We started with a bowl of Italian beans with a little macaroni, not too bad. Then a basket of bread with salted butter. It reminded me of moderately crusty bread that I would have eaten on a sandwich at Primanti Brother's. I enjoyed the tomato, cucumber, and onion salad in a zesty Italian dressing with a lot of red wine vinegar and herbs. After that came the bowl of angel hair pasta in their sauce. We were a little disappointed with the taste of the sweeter marinara. It may have been from using carrot, in the mirepoix, or it may have been too much sugar. But it wasn't great sauce, I especially didn't like having that watery excess in the bottom of the bowl.

For entrees, we did an order of chicken eggplant parmesan, I really like having a combination of both and they obliged. I got two eggplant slices and one chicken breast topped with provolone and marinara. Chicken breast was a good size, cooked well, eggplant was fine, still crispy, not that greasy. The other entree was the Chicken Antonio with prosciutto, provolone, mushrooms and a lemon butter sauce. The dish was cooked well, but the overall product turned out dry without the lemon butter sauce.

Sadly we did not order the Bravo Franco, the meat extravaganza I described in a previous post, with a  strip steak, two pork chops, and sauteed peppers, onions, and mushrooms. Mom wasn't feeling it and I wasn't about to push her in that direction.

Of course, two tables away, I saw one guy digging into a couple of pork chops that must have been 2 inches thick. I began feeling the regrets. 

Is this the best Italian food I've ever had? It's not. But they gave us good service at a fair price and that does go a long way. Would I come back? Perhaps, but I would have to change my order to something more meat-centric. 

And we still haven't ordered a single dessert yet.

We were both a little fatigued after all that food as well as splitting a bottle of Pinot Noir. And the rain was picking up, so we headed back to the room. I think we both fell asleep, for a while. But around 8, I woke up. I wanted to head out and drink, but the rain had turned into a complete storm by this point. So I went down to the lobby, began writing the post you are reading, while gazing to the left where the front window of the hotel is to see if the rain was letting up. Close to an hour later, I'm still writing!

Epilogue:

I sat in the lobby for an hour before the rain let up enough where I walked the five minutes to the Carolina Ale House. I had a 22 oz Sweetwater 420 and a 16 oz Wicked Weed Pernicious. 

The next morning, we drove out to Wilmington, a town I never need to visit again, and made it back to Cary around 6 pm.


Myrtle Beach Days, Part 1

I haven't set foot in Myrtle Beach in maybe 15 years, but I probably went 3 or so times in about a ten year span. After our travel plans to Annapolis and Ocean City proved to be unaffordable, the Grand Strand stretch of South Carolina became a viable alternative and we were able to score two nights as a Fairfield Inn, one of which was free.

We began the drive down from Cary early on a Saturday morning, it took a little over three hours. On the way, we stopped at McDonald's so she could get coffee and there must have been 30 cars on line. It was in one of these tiny towns and I guess that's the place to hang out. No wonder the average weight of those people was about 285 pounds. Our initial destination was the Market Common, a brand new shopping area in Myrtle Beach, just south of the airport. There was a lot going on, a farmer's market, a classic car show, and a National Little League baseball tournament. They had restaurants such ass PF Chang's, the Brass Tap, Tupelo Honey, and Gordon Biersch Brewery. Mom was rather surprised to see such a nice area in the middle of Myrtle Beach.

Our first planned stop was Pedego bike rentals, I had arranged for us to take a guided tour on their electrics. It was actually my first time riding an electric in the USA; the only other time I had ridden one was in southern France. It was us, our guide, and one married couple, probably in their late 50's. After a tutorial, we began the electric bike ride through local neighborhoods, eventually getting to the pier at Myrtle Beach State Park.

During our break, I took a picture of the other couple. Turns out the guy we were riding with was a Jets season ticket holder for 20 years. And he said his kids love podcasts so I told him about NY Sports WickerMedia, Jets Chaos, Green Bean, etc. What were the odds?!

At one point, I was able to get my bike up to 20 MPH. Gotta love those throttles. They make the ride so much easier. It was $64 for a guided two hour ride, and it was well worth it. I'm not a fan of bike riding, but if I lived in an area conducive to bike riding, I would consider investing in an electric.

By 12:30 and after being awake for 7.5 hours, we were ready to go eat. I picked the Sea Captain's House, located right on the beach. And right next to the restaurant was a hotel that had a very high outdoor waterslide, it must be interesting for patrons sitting just 20 feet away from a bunch of screaming kids dripping water! 

We started with the fried oysters with remoulade, they were amazing. Sauce had the right amount of spice, the oysters were crispy and not greasy. For entrees, we had a broiled crab cake sandwich with fries and a salad of tomato, avocado, boiled and chilled shrimp, and fresh crab meat. Both were fantastic, the seafood was fresh, the produce was high quality. Of course, they came with a basket of hush puppies and a ramekin of honey butter. God, no wonder so many people in the south weigh so much. And major credit to the staff, they were friendly and food came out very promptly, so credit to the kitchen staff. Great place to visit when you're in the Grand Strand.

Then we checked into the Fairfield Inn. The location was great, a ten minute walk from Broadway At the Beach, a major entertainment complex that I'd visited a couple of times before. We also had a Brazilian steakhouse and Carolina Ale House right next door. I wish we could have done the Brazilian place but it doesn't make sense for Mom to go to an all you can eat establishment.

The hotel was fine, although the air conditioner was broken in the gym. I quickly figured out with 90 degree heat, I was not going to be doing much cardio. And no bar, but at least they had a free hot breakfast.

After about an hour of setting up, we drove thirty minutes south to Murrell's Inlet, where Mom really wanted to go. This area has about nine major restaurants, but they are all right next to each other on both sides of a two lane road. So the traffic gets a little crazy, as does the parking.

We went to the Claw House, I thought they had a great Happy Hour and the Yelp reviews impressed me. I ordered a couple of local draft beers and we ordered the crab nachos for $12, since all apps are 30% off from 4-7 pm every day. So these nachos are made up of fried wonton chips, lots of crab meat, a spicy cheddar cheese sauce, half an avocado, mango salsa, pico de gallo, and green onions. These nachos were piled super high, they are the type of nachos where you order them and other customers stare at them with their mouths gaped open. And the flavor was so great. The wontons were crispy, and a lighter tasting alternative to traditional tortilla chips. We had plenty of fresh crabmeat to go around, there was just a touch of heat from the cheddar sauce as well as a little jalapeno in the pico. And the combination of salsas were so flavorful and vibrant. And they looked beautiful with all the different colors, the orange of the mango, the green of the avocado, the pink of the crab, etc. If you're on the Grand Strand, you have to order these, especially if you have a hungry person with you.

Sadly, we were too full to order anything else! And were given very prompt and friendly service, this is definitely a place to visit. Of and they have a blonde bartender who is a school teacher except during the summer, when she bartends. And she was so engaging and funny.

We could have gone to the Carolina Opry for a Highwaymen tribute, but I guess we didn't want to spend the 55 bucks per ticket. So instead, we went to Crocodile Rocks, the dueling piano bar at Broadway At the Beach. It was ten bucks to get in and we grabbed two seats at the back bar, giving us a perfect view of the stage. I ordered a Jack and ginger and sat down for the show.

We were among the first people in the club when it opened at 7, but by 8, it became super loud and crowded. The chief culprits was the bachelor party, probably about 10 or 11 guys. And in addition to paying for requests, they also have a board called "3 Words Or Less." It starts at $1 and if you pay more than the amount on the board, you can request any message on the board that you want. And it turned into "Let's Go Brandon," "Hunter Eats Ass," "Hunter Eats Anal." Of course, I had no issue with the political aspect. Then it turned into messages about popping certain things and what should be done to other things in reference to certain women in the audience. The sexual stuff was a little more than I would've liked, but it  was adult humor and no one was getting hurt or anything. But sitting next to mom...yeah, that got a little awkward.

With the bar getting more and more crowded, we left around 9:30 pm.



Sunday, July 10, 2022

Into the Best Month

And we have survived another June, praise God. I find it deliciously ironic that Roe vs Wade died during that particular month.

So I'm heading to South Carolina this weekend. I found a Pittsburgh-influenced Italian restaurant and their description includes the following:

"Our family style dining experience begins with an Italian beans and greens followed by our salad. Prior to your entrĂ©e, we also serve angel hair pasta in our homemade marinara sauce. If you have room, we also have a selection of made to order desserts such as cannoli’s and our family style Nina’s surprise."

Another menu item includes a 16 oz NY strip steak topped with two center cut pork chops smothered with mushrooms, peppers, and onions...

They didn't have to twist my arm!!