Friday, August 21, 2020

NFL Predictions

 This is assuming there is a season of course.

AFC
AFC East
y-Buffalo               10-6    
x-New England     10-6 
Miami                    5-11
NY Jets                  3-13

AFC North
c-Baltimore         13-3 
x-Cleveland           9-7
Pittsburgh             9-7
Cincinnati            4-12

AFC South
y-Tennessee         10-6    
x-Indianapolis      10-6
Houston                7-9
Jacksonville          2-14

AFC West
y-Kansas City         12-4
San Diego/LA          9-7
Las Vegas/Oakland 8-8
Denver                      4-12

NFC
NFC East
y-Philadelphia       11-5
x-Dallas                  10-6
NY Giants               6-10
Washington            3-13

NFC North
y-Minnesota          10-6
Green Bay              8-8
Detroit                    7-9
Chicago                 5-11

NFC South
y-Tampa Bay        10-6
x-New Orleans     10-6
Atlanta                  8-8
Carolina                6-10

NFC West
c-San Francisco    12-4
x-Seattle                10-6
LA Rams                7-9
Arizona                  6-10

Super Bowl
Baltimore over Philadelphia

Rejected

I remember when I was a young man, especially in my early to late 20s, the very thought of asking a woman on a date intimidated me. I guess I have always been a late learner when it comes to social settings. I suppose that's what happens when you don't have any siblings, when you get bullied for so long, and when you don't have much else in the way of family in terms of cousins and people that are your own age. You just come by things the hard way, and that makes those hard lessons cut that much deeper.

Somehow, somewhere along the way, I gained a little self-confidence. I can't even be sure if it's something somebody said or if it was just when I had a moment of self realization, but I remember I was 26 years old. 

And now fast forward 13 years. A change has taken place. I'm not afraid to ask a girl out, it's now that I get rejected constantly. And what has not changed is that the moments after I get rejected sting just as deep as they did when I was in my early 20's. I still sense the confusion, my brains start racing to figure what I said or did wrong. Did I use too many words? Did I ask too quickly? Did I use the wrong voice tone or rate of speed? Did my freaking eyebrow go up?

The most common things I hear are they're just getting out of a relationship or we're not a match. The latter, I can't really do much with. If they feel that way, they feel that way. But the first one is complete nonsense. If they say they are not looking for a relationship, all it means is they are not looking for a relationship with ME. I've seen it. They're looking for a relationship with one particular guy or they have a set image of what that guy is supposed to be (6 feet tall and makes at least $60,000 seems to be the most important criteria). 

Women will reject men over the stupidest crap. And it's always personal for me. It doesn't stop hurting and it doesn't stop happening. And I don't know how to change it.

Maybe there just is no other half. And if so, that's ok, I'll learn to accept it. But I'm pushing 40. My time is running out and running out quickly.

Monday, August 03, 2020

Opus 9 Steakhouse Review

I'm going to start right with the main event, because I know you're not reading this to see how the bread tasted. Fantastic steaks, nice and juicy with a touch of char, cooked exactly how we wanted, medium porterhouse and a medium rare strip. The sound of that sizzling butter as the meat is coming on that white hot plate, it is one of the most beautiful sounds human ears have ever heard. However my friend's strip was certainly oversalted, and that is saying a lot since they add salt to just about everything they eat. I took a bite of the strip and before i did, I had to actually scrape some of the salt off.

I was also pleased with their wine selections, they have about 150 bottles. I wound up ordering a wonderful Syrah from Oregon for $50. But the sever did not pour a taste from the bottle to see if we liked it, he just poured a whole glass. And he could've done a better job noticing when our water glasses were approaching empty.

I had further frustrations with him at the end when I specifically ordered the bananas foster cheesecake when I ordered my meal, since the menu stated this dessert needed to be ordered at dinner for prep time. When my dessert came, it was a regular slice of housemade cheesecake with strawberries, whipped cream, and berry puree. I didn't make a big deal of it, since it was a good dessert, but it was disappointing to not get what I asked for, especially since I was celebrating a birthday.

A few other notes about the meal. I've never seen another restaurant that puts their butter in a piping bag and squeeze it into a ramekin to accompany the bread, nice extra touch. The onion ring side we got was enormous, but they tasted great. Beer battered is always better, am I right? I took half of those home. Since I signed up for the email club, I got a free shrimp cocktail app. Very nice presentation with a silver slotted cup, and a space for each of the 5 shrimp. I liked the addition of remoulade to accompany the traditional cocktail sauce. With the potatoes, the garlic mashed were quite creamy, but nicely seasoned. I enjoyed my au gratin, they had a good amount of cheese, but not too much. I could have handled a little more pepper in them though.

Aside from did, with COVID going on, guests can scan a QR code and view the menu from their phone rather than having a hand held menu at their table.

Our bill came to about $200, which is pretty high when you consider the shrimp app was included and the service wasn't executed as smoothly or as tightly as it could've been. But I did have a great steak and that's really the most important thing.